I've been very curious about the meaning of a collar in RL. Honestly, before I started to take this journey, I assumed a collar would be more of a dog collar look always worn and me always kneeling.. Not my most favorite visual, that's for sure. I guess my perception was that it would be degrading to me.
With researching collars, I've discovered a lot about the significance, different styles used at different times as well as alternatives such as bracelets or anklets. I'm quite intrigued by them, and my mindset is quite different now. I like the idea of having a collar to wear every day or an alternative item, something discrete that has significant meaning of our relationship and trust. I really love the idea of us both wearing something inscribed that matches, possibly a dog tag or some sort of necklace or bracelet. I think to me the idea of us wearing something very special with an inscription from the other is extremely intimate and makes the significance of the " collar" more meaningful. I'm not sure how you feel about both wearing something to denote our commitment though. I did see this etsy store and thought they had some really cool ideas.. https://www.etsy.com/shop/TwistedSkrews?ref=l2-shop-header-avatar Another Idea I love is a collar for "play" times, which I envision as a bit more of a traditional collar look that I know when you tell me to get it , and you place it on me .. You will have your way with me... The Idea of you grabbing my collar and pulling me close is very arousing.... Bottom line, I feel with you , I trust you enough to " own " me , which in my heart I feel you already do Daddy ... I feel it's only a matter of time before we are together in SL and then progress to RL where we can have total commitment to each other.. Which is something I'd love to have..... Just a disclaimer here - I know right now a collar is not possible, nor am I asking for it now. It's something I think down the road it would be nice to discuss. A bit rainy today so a low key day of playing cards and hanging out. we walked around the shops when the rain cleared up and had milkshakes..
Drive here wasn't too bad. It only took 3 and a half hrs. The resort is beautiful... God I wish you were here to share this experience with me.. 19th floor city view. We have a corner unit so the art deco balcony wraps around 2 sides. Went out for seafood tonight and walked the boardwalk before hitting the lazy river to drift and relax a bit. After that I talked the kids into playing Cards Against Humanity with me.. My quiet lil girl has quite the warped mind!! So proud of her... ;) Hope your enjoying your weekend Love..
We touched on a few things that would work for punishment while we are virtual Lovers that I wanted to bring up here and kinda give my take on it since we never really finished the discussion yesterday.
Denial of Edging: I do love to edge for you and honestly when you do not ask me to during the day, I feel a loss. I can't explain it , but you asking me to Edge makes me think I'm on the forefront of your mind, and that I'm bringing you pleasure by obeying and edging for you. So I think that being told I cannot edge for you would be a harsh punishment and one that I'd not take lightly. Orgasm Denial: Similar to Edging, I do enjoy having an orgasm for you, so being denied one of the things I so look forward to giving you I think is a serious punishment. The other thought here is you can make me touch and play while you play and I hear you cum but I cannot.. That would definitely add to the punishment as I always want to cum with you and for you in your ear .. Ruined Orgasm: At times, when I do edge and then you tell me to cum, it is more of a ruined orgasm-- I orgasm, but I do not totally cum , or it's not as strong as other orgasms because I've been over stimulated. We could used this as I have to edge and not cum to the point of being over that peak and the feeling disappearing. Again, I think this would work best if we were in voice. Wooden spoon or Brush on Thighs: I know this is something new we've tried. and it's something that I'm not sure if I TOTALLY enjoy it , but I know with proper stimulation is it bearable. I'm not sure about spanking myself without that stimulation, how that will feel, which makes me think it might be a good punishment.. I have to spank myself as many times as you ask on a specific body part, either while on mic with you or I have to record it to prove it and send it to you with a picture of the area that was spanked. I think any of the above would be sufficient, I think we can do the punishment with either me having to record myself for you so you have proof or voice. I was thinking recording would be when we have times that you or I cannot voice at the moment of punishment. And of course a visual of the spanking would be good to send you as well. |
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